What are you no longer willing to tolerate?

Updated: Apr 6, 2020

This is one of my favourite questions for a new coaching client. It gives rise to all kinds of emotions, often hurt, anger and frustration, so it's a great time to explore what's behind these emotions and what values are not being honoured. Once you have explored the values, you can follow-up with questions like:

  • What's the impact of that on you?

  • How are you going to honour this values now?

  • What boundaries need to be in place to make this happen?


When to use

  • The best time to use is at the beginning of a coaching engagement

  • When exploring the client's values and how much they are being honoured

  • Also when you are exploring boundaries of the client with others

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